ok so im finally liberated from the guy who i don't like! here's the scoop:
during Christmas break, I decided not to talk to the guy i went out for coffee with anymore because I felt like God was asking me "what are you doing?? Stop messing around." I talked to my mom about it and she said the same thing. So, I discontinued conversation; besides, I didn't hear from him all break so I thought it was all good and also, he has a girlfriend and I told him I wasn't interested in him. Then, the day after New Year's he texts me and goes "hey, here's my new number." I looked at the text and was like, woah. What the mess? I thought I made it clear to him that I wasn't interested. I didn't answer because I wanted to do what my mom said. A few days later I got another text. A few days later, yet another. They weren't harassing or anything like that, just the annoying texts you don't want to get from a guy you already said no to. I didn't want a friendship or anything. I just wanted to be free from him. (I know it sounds terrible but, he's 22. What's he want with an 18 year old? Come on now.) So I didn't answer. He went and text me the day I planned on flying out to Nashville and my mom was in the car. I told her what he said "What's up?" and she was like "amanda, I thought you made it clear to him you weren't interested?" and I said, "yea! I did!! But he keeps bugging me and texting me. He even went on my facebook and wrote on my wall when I didn't respond." She did the whole mom thing and said, "Amanda, if he texts you again or starts popping up around places on campus, I want his first and last name and I'll be calling Belmont." I agreed to the plan and headed out to beautiful Belmont, awaiting another great semester and my joy for seeing my MAN was almost uncontainable. I got back to campus and no sooner did I get unpacked that he text me AGAIN!!! He thought I didn't have his number so he sent me a text saying who he was and hoping all is well. I didn't respond.
Today was the last straw.
He text me again. Now mind you, wouldn't you get the hint if you were texting someone and they weren't texting back that they weren't interested in you and wanted nothing to do with you? Obviously, dude didn't get the memo!! He asked how my classes were. Everytime he text me I would get sick to my stomah to the point where I feel like I'm gonna throw up. That's not the way to live.
My friend had the idea of making up a fake boyfriend for me and texting him like my boyfriend had my phone. I said, "BRILLIANT!" So she text like my fake boyfriend (FYI his name was Tim, taken from my friend's GPS system. Tim is a Brit hhehehee) She text him to leave me alone and he obliged. I haven't gotten a text and he hasn't written on my wall so I'm thinking it's the end to which I'm very happy.
Another perk to today was I got my laptop from home. My laptop crashed and I needed a whole new hardrive. Thankfully, my laptop is under warranty so it was free! =) Praise Jesus!!!
Everything has been going well. I love being back and I love being free
Thursday, January 15, 2009
It is FINISHED!!!!!
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